WHAT IS DIVORCE MEDIATION?

• It is non-adversarial
• It is mutual
• It is best for your children
• It helps clarify areas of conflict
• It gives YOU the power
• It is less costly than litigation
• It helps you to explore options that aren't the "norm"

WHAT IS THE ROLE OF THE MEDIATOR?

   First and foremost, the mediator is a neutral party whose purpose is to help you come to a mutually accepted Separation Agreement.

   The mediator will help identify and address all the areas involved in a divorce, such as division of marital/joint property, marital debts, spousal support, child support and parenting plans.

   The mediator can help you explore options and obtain information so that you can reach an agreement that both parties can live with. At no time does the mediator make the decisions.

   At times there will be difficult moments - these are a normal part of the mediation process. The mediator will help you to deal with this so that you can make rational decisions.

WHAT IS THE MEDIATION PROCESS?

   There are a series of meetings held until resolution is reached on all issues. Because there is so much to take into consideration, it may take several sessions to address and resolve them all.

   Most meetings are held with the mediator and both parties. There may be a time when a private session is needed to help the process.

   When all of the decisions have been made, a Separation Agreement will be drafted, and you will have the opportunity to have independent counsel review the agreement so that it can be presented to the Court.

HOW DO I BEGIN MEDIATION?

   Call 860-482-9004 to set up a free initial consultation to discuss the mediation process in more detail.

   Although this is a Law Office, we do not represent either party. All agreements that you make should be reviewed by individual counsel.

WHAT IS INCLUDED?

• First draft of the Separation Agreement.
• One revised draft of the Separation Agreement
• Separation Agreement review session of up to one hour
• Final signing session (for signing and notarizing of Agreement and Court documents)
• Completion of required Court forms (except disclosure forms)
• All typing, word processing, mailing, photocopying and long distance phone costs
• Securing a State Marshal for service (fee for service is separate)